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#324121 - 2010-01-19 16:21:58
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
[Re: abelisle]
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I don't know how I would be different, because right now, I can't wrap my mind around the fact that there is no GOD. I would like to think though, that I would basically be the same person. In my youth I was intentionally mean, and I really hated the feelings that stemmed from that, so I now strive not to cause pain to anyone, even though I know that I do from time to time it is completely unintentional.
In Sabbath School a week or so ago, we were talking along these lines, and a young person spoke up and said that the only reason they were "good" was because they didn't want to go to hell. I felt really bad for them, because in this line of thinking they also miss out on the goodness of GOD.
Edited by Tom Wetmore (2010-01-19 17:20:52) Edit Reason: quotes removed
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#324128 - 2010-01-19 16:40:58
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
[Re: abelisle]
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My behavior and values wouldn't change, but I know that is because of the Holy Spirit in my life. I'm sure that if I hadn't been converted to Christ, I would eventually have committed murder. But because of prayers in my behalf, the Holy Spirit led me to choose Christ, and after that God changed me. So I am what I am today because of Christ. Without Him, I'm certain I would have either been killed by now or been put in prison.
You ask whether it is wrong to murder if there is no God. Not in any absolute sense but only because it is against the laws of society, and people are punished for violating society's norms. Being constituted as they are, humans also usually punish themselves-- though not necessarily consciously-- because of their "wrong acts." But without God, there would be no violation of a universal moral law since all moral law proceeds from God. If God does not exist, then everything is permitted as far as the universe is concerned. Apart from God's existence, the universe is completely indifferent to morality. Morality is how things should be-- the rule of the ideal-- questions of right and wrong, whereas the universe of itself alone deals only with power and what actually is. It declares that all that is, is right.
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#324141 - 2010-01-19 17:17:48
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
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MODERATOR POST - just tagging on to the end...
People of middle earth, please pay attention to the one rule that rings loud and clear here in the middle earth, otherwise known as the Original Thoughts forum.
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I know many of you arrive at these topics, as do I, via the "Active Topics" option in the menu bar and so may bypass the statement of the rule both in the main Forums menu and at the top of the topics list of the Original Thoughts forum. BUT that excuse is most useful for newbies. Most of you who seem consistently doing the quote box routine here have been around long enough to know the rule by now. And the "Active Topics" menu option does clearly identify the specific forum in which each listed topic is found. Please pay attention to that.
And for the record, this is a great topic for this forum, Alex. I like it and will dig into the old brain for a few thoughts later when I have more time.
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#324403 - 2010-01-20 01:22:54
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
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Yes, Satan can do good things, but I don't know of any good that he's actually done since he fell into sin and rebellion. He may appear to do good, perhaps, but it is invariably for an evil, selfish purpose. At least as far as I know. For instance, he is persistent and persevering, which is usually a good characteristic, but Satan uses all that energy to advance his kingdom of death.
It's true that atheists do some good things and also that they can be ethical and kind. Much of that can be explained by the fact that many of them grew up believing in Christ at one time. They also live in the world in which they can't help but learn values that resulted from religious beliefs. Most atheists don't live in accordance with their intellectual convictions-- they are still living according to the morality that grows out of religions that they claim they reject. For instance, some will say that we should love everyone, but that is a belief that comes from Christ and from other religions, not from a universe without religious faith. It takes a long time for the behavior and the emotions to follow the lead of the mind, and it only does it after a great struggle against the morality they learned as children.
Some excellent studies have shown that atheists do good only when it is to their benefit and rarely when it is not. Athiesits have often sacrificed themselves for a cause that they believe in, but they almost never sacrifice themselves for the benefit of their enemy. Christ taught us to be kind and loving even to those who do us harm, and many Christians obey that commandment. There's nothing in atheism-- no atheistic teacher or philosopher-- that teaches this. Fredrich Neitszche, the father of "modern atheism," turned Christ's commandments on their head and taught just the opposite.
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#324501 - 2010-01-20 13:57:54
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
[Re: abelisle]
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No, I would not be any different today in either personality or behavior if I found out there was no God. The reason is that whether there is a God or not, I have found that following the NT teachings of Christ lead to the good life on this earth. It makes good sense & "works" whether its promises of heaven are true or not. I've found this out by persoanl experience and not by just hearing or reading about it.
The answer to your second question, about murder, is that without God, it would not be wrong in any absolute sense but it would still be wrong from the viewpoint of human society. Apart from God there would be no absolute moral law by which to measure right and wrong. Yet, because people are influenced by the values of the society in which they grow up, most people would still feel in their "conscience" that it's wrong to murder; but if someone did not have such feelings, they would be no more "wrong" than those who do feel that murder is "wrong." That, however, would only be a subjective judgment and not an objective one.
Your third question asks if some of us are being "good" simply because of the expectation of heaven. My answer is yes, of course. I think most believers begin their Christian walk in that way, but as we mature spiritually we should have more profound reasons for living and behaving as we do. The Bible doesn't condemn people for being motivated by hopes of heaven, but God does expect us to grow so that they are not the only reason for doing good. Our reason should be to help our fellow human beings. However, if we posit that there is no God, I don't believe there's any way to show that someone who doesn't help other people is wrong in any absolute sense. In that case, all we can say is that the person is anti-social or that his acts violate society's laws and therefore should be punished.
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#324781 - 2010-01-20 23:01:22
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
[Re: rudywoofs]
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If there was no God (and the atheists, and evolutionists were right)and there was no future reward or punishment and life as we now know it was pointless,meaningless,and completely existential, why would I not want to: cheat on my income taxes,have sex with as many girls as possible, disrespect my parents, get loaded as often as possible,inflict greater hurt on those who have hurt me first,gather to myself possessions without having to pay for them,lie about others in order to gain some sort of advantage,eliminate anyone who stands in the way of my prosperity and happiness,ect...? "I don't wanna work, I just wanna play in the sun all day!" What are they going to do,kill me? I would quote another Jewish guy who had the same ideas as me (copycat!)but I think it's against the rules.In other words, I'd probably be a liberal.
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#324870 - 2010-01-21 10:30:18
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
[Re: Aubrey]
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Good point. The only reason I can think of to live is to further evolution by reproducing as much as possible. Of course, I would probably be stuck between that and having no children because bringing children into an utterly pointless existence would be cruel... except without a moral code, nothing is cruel.
Also, I suppose, I would probably just think, "Well, as long as I'm here, I might as well draw some fleeting pleasure out of the whole thing." I think that's basically what hedonism is about... nothing matters anyway, so we might as well make the most of it and try to have as much pleasure as possible before we turn back into mud.
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#324952 - 2010-01-21 14:41:07
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
[Re: CoAspen]
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#325316 - 2010-01-21 23:46:43
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
[Re: pkrause]
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Has anyone seen the movie "The Invention of Lying"? The premise is along the lines of the OP, that there is no GOD and no satan. The people tell the truth--according to them--to the point where if they think it they say it--even if it is painful to the other person. The movie was really funny! But all the way through it I kept thinking about this thread--because I have no life like that--anyways, these people still had a "moral" code of sorts, they still had police and jail, but they believed everything the other person said, because no one lied. They even showed how a burglary would go in this society.
I won't give any more away in case anyone would like to watch it, but it was very good, especially in light of this thread.
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#325375 - 2010-01-22 08:24:05
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
[Re: Aubrey]
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In correction of my previous post, #325263:
I apologize for using the quote feature. My original post, which can be seen in this thread on page 7 contained a quote from the person I was responding directly to. Without the quote, I felt that my response makes little sense. Therefore, I am restating, using original words, the point I was trying to make in the first place.
SivartM (forgive me for not quoting you) you implied, but did not say directly that "non-bad" non-believers-in-God are not in Kohlberg's *cough* *cough* last two stages, but rather the former ones; that non-believers-in-God are non-bad due to the fact that their peers on this planet dictate they should be non-bad and they are meted according to their behavior.
SivartM, you also implied, but did not say directly, that these non-believers-in-God are not non-bad due to the fact that these humans adhere to the idea that there is an all-encompassing good-behavior model.
Now, with those thoughts in mind, I sa:
I disagree with this in part. My father and my step-mother are atheists. I can agree that they are not "good" because they believe that there is any universal moral code; however, I do not agree that they are "good" because they are rewarded for good and punished for bad. Rather, they act out of an internal sense of kindness toward others--some might define this kindness as "love" (I know, I certainly do). They fed their children, they gave their children love and encouragement; they helped the needy, gave to the poor; they cared for one another and for their elderly parents; the extended their hand to others in need; and so on and so forth.
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#325533 - 2010-01-22 14:11:10
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
[Re: abelisle]
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In my opinion it's not really a matter of whether or not goodness is somehow inherent in us. My point is that having a universal moral standard without a god is impossible... so if we want to be honest with ourselves, why try to be "good" when there is no "good" anyway? If it's somehow inherent in us, it's just religious and social oppression... and it doesn't matter what we do. So if you feel guilty for something, ignore it, because you aren't doing anything "wrong".
Basically, whether or not we seem to have some inherited tendencies toward "goodness" (no doubt brought on by closed-minded religionists), it still doesn't matter what we do, because there is no universal moral standard. If someone follows those inherited tendencies toward "goodness", good for them, but such a thing is unnatural, and they shouldn't expect other people to not kill them and plunder their goods.
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#325682 - 2010-01-22 19:15:21
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
[Re: abelisle]
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I used to think all the time without God in the picture. But for the past 4 years or so, God has become everything for me. Sure, I can go back to thinking the way I used to, but why would I want to? Thinking without God led me down a dead-end road without God for several decades.
Neitzsche was an atheist, in fact the father of modern atheism, yet all of his writings show that God, or rather the signifance of God's absence, was always a part of his thinking.
Thinking for ourselves does not mean that we won't think as some other people do. But we shouldn't be merely copying others, or reflecting other men's thoughts. To do us any real good, beliefs have to become part of ourselves.
As long as we're referencing Ellen White, we might as well reference the fact that she never advised people to dismiss God or the Bible from their thinking. There's nothing "wise" or "intelligent" in omitting God from one's viewpoint.
She didn't mean that we shouldn't take into consideration what Christ and the prophets taught. She meant that we should study those things, think them through carefully, know what we believe and why we believe it, and learn to apply the principles of the gospel to our lives personally. But this is not at all the same as thinking without God in the picture. I don't see a bit of advantage to doing that.
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#325805 - 2010-01-23 02:23:21
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
[Re: rudywoofs]
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Of course you are right, but without God and without the Bible, it's all just a matter of opinion. Someone's "good" may be someone else's "bad," and only the most powerful or the majority can enforce their value system through laws which determine what's legal and illegal, i.e., "right" and "wrong." If someone comes up to you and smashes you in the face or steals from you, it will make you mad and you can say it's wrong according to human laws, but none of that will matter to the one who takes those actions if he's convincted there's no God and no moral law. If there's no universal law, and he can get away with it, there's no reason from the criminal's viewpoint why he shouldn't do it.
Morals that come from the state are changeable. If our freedom does not come from God, then the state is the one who gives it to you; and if it gives it to you, it has the right to take it from you whenever it has the will and the power to do so.
God's existence is the only guarantee of justice in the universe. Without Him, the only justice is that which exists in this present life, and I think everyone would agree that there is little justice in the here and now. Untold millions of innocent people, including millions of children, have been slaughtered without their murderers being caught or punished. And even if the murderer is caught, there still is often no justice because they are either found not guilty or else they serve only a few years in prison. If there is no God and no afterlife-- no "judgment"-- then it seems obvious that the universe is completely indifferent to any of humanity's concepts of justice or morality.
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#326096 - 2010-01-23 17:56:09
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
[Re: Bravus]
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Pam mentioned that my characterisation of 'Christians' in the blog post didn't represent her view, or even reflect the feeling of this thread as a whole. I agree: I was really reacting more to my whole experience of Christian arguments in this field over many years, and to some of the stronger views being put in this thread, such as those of SivartM and dgrimm60, who are claiming that all reality is derived from Christian roots (in the latter case) or from 'some form of divinity' in the former. Christian thought on this issue, as on almost every issue, is enormously broad, and no single characterisation is going to take in all perspectives.
I think the argument that, because there were a few Christian missionaries to India in the first couple of centuries AD, that every moral principle in a country that has been Hindu for thousands of years since is rooted in the Bible is a very far-fetched case to try to make. And India was just one of the examples I chose - what about unreached tribes in the Amazon? Many of them still have some of the same moral codes described in the 10 Commandments. Clearly some moral principles *can* arise in isolation from the Biblical influence.
We can ascribe that to the Holy Spirit's direct action in the heart of all people everywhere, or we can ascribe it to the fact that these rules Just Work: a society without 'thou shalt not kill, thou shalt not steal, thou shalt not commit adultery' rules is not a healthy or stable society...
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#327970 - 2010-01-28 02:32:17
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
[Re: dgrimm60]
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There is work, but it's not based on external rewards. I'm not working towards salvation. I'm trying to avoid suffering and experience joy. That's pretty much instinctual. Not many people I know have to work at that desire.
When I state what I find to be true, it's not me trying to be good. It's me discovering the best way to find joy. That's an internal reward or in Christian terms your treasure in heaven. I think Jesus was referring to the Kingdom of God within as heaven available now. Many early Christians saw what became referred to as the 2nd coming as an internal mystical experience available right then. Pentecost and the Holy Spirit or Spirit of Christ may have been remnants of early gnostic beliefs about this mystical return.
Because Christianity establishes this idea of salvation, it becomes difficult to understand this concept outside of the Christian lens of good/bad/right/wrong. And for me the words of Jesus really spell this out clearly when he states that by the fruits you can know what is true. And, for me, I have found absolutely no evidence that Christianity produces what it claims.
When I look at the fruits of Christianity over its history, I find an appalling preponderance of violence and bigotry over and over and over again. And I believe it's because it adopted the neo platonic ideas of good and evil. The practice of violence against any who disagreed has been the greater portion of its history. It has been the secular movement that has checked its violence for now, but as we all know there are still those willing to kill in the name of god.
And I encounter Christians who are beautiful people, but their ignorance serves to spread suffering. A fool can create far more suffering than a tyrant. If Christians would spend more time learning how to reason well and less time trying to be "good" I think their voice would bring far different results. There is a vast wasteland of teaching, within Christianity, on how to empathize and love others. There is an excess of teaching on how to be "right."
And the tragedy of this approach is that it squelches empathy and love and is neither good or nor "right."
Edited by cardw (2010-01-28 05:39:31) Edit Reason: Removed quote
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#424252 - 2011-02-13 19:08:44
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
[Re: abelisle]
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Answering the op, I used to think that, given what I have learned over the years, that yes, I would seek to be "moral", even if there were no heaven, no God...
But if there were no God, would we know what morality is? If we all popped into existence somehow...
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Joh 14:27 Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.
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#442120 - 2011-05-09 09:55:14
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
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if there is no GOD then we wouldnt be created in HIS IMAGE! we wouldnt have a sense of ourselves or a purpose we wouldnt look into the stars and the world around us with a sense of wonder cause i believe us reaching out beyond ourselves to something greater than ourselves is put in us by GOD so we could search for HIM in this mess a GOD VOID! sooooo we would be like animals surviving ..not using our frontal lobes in choosing right and wrong just existing in self preservation with claiming land and gathering and hunting and making babies! and to answer the question about murder or bad morals i would be sadly humping everyones leg 
Edited by Parade Orange (2011-05-09 09:59:52)
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#445893 - 2011-05-21 05:35:20
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
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As one poster noted early in the thread, if there is no God then there is no good. By implication, if no good, then no bad. Of course the assumption of the question being that if no God then we are still here.
But, let's entertain the notion of good existing outside of God. Why are we good? Or, why are we taught to be good as children? Why are we taught to be good? Sing yourself the song "Santa Claus is coming to town". What are told to do so that Santa doesn't cross our name off his list? Be good. This is human nature, to induce improved behavior through reward, or threatening to withhold that reward.
What sub-culture, other than a religious one, focuses so heavily on doing what is right? I'd argue none, or at least very few. This is particularly true in the SDA church because we distinguish ourselves from other Christians by being different, following a different lifestyle, one that requires sacrifice now, in exchange for reward later.
Thus we have unintentionally created a culture where we choose to become good because of the reward will follow. Therefore, I would argue that if Christians found out today that there was no God, the initial reaction would be one of disappointment followed by immoral behavior by many simply because the incentive to be good has been removed, thus there are no consequences to one's actions.
But of course you still must live on Earth among your fellow men. This is where atheists or agnostics have a foot up on those who live in a devoutly Christian environment, because they are good for the sake of good, or bad for the sake of bad. They have an intrinsic desire to be or do good, despite the nature of man which pushes us to be bad and which they must resist or accept.
Of course carrots and sticks is not what God has in mind for us, but this is how the culture of Christianity has developed based on existing human traits which we have then embraced and driven forward with doctrine.
So, to answer the OP, I think it is different for different people. Their reaction to finding out there is no God would depend on their environment and their upbringing. Of course personality, genetics, would be a determinant as well.
As for me, I'd like to think I'd be good, but I also know that the culture of reward, through my religious upbringing, is very strong. I don't know what I'd do.
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#445897 - 2011-05-21 06:06:15
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
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Yes, all people do it, and we learn it as children. But many churches embrace this facet of human behavior and use it to threaten eternal damnation vs. eternal bliss.
Ask someone why they don't speed down the highway and you are likely to get a number of different answers. Some will say they don't want to get caught, others will say they just want to follow the law, and others, the higher level of thinking, will say they follow the speed limit because they know it was designed for their own good and they don't want to risk killing someone, or killing themselves, regardless of the consequences.
This gets into Maslow, human motivation theory, and the human needs pyramid. So clearly it's very complex. If all of a person's needs are being met elsewhere then they are more likely to act in a moral, good, way.
Yet cultures certainly can embrace certain aspects of human behavior and use those to demand obedience, through guilt of breaking God's law, through threats of not going to Heaven, etc.
No need to agree with me, all just food for thought. But even if you are right, then how do we explain non-believers who are truly good people? What is their motive? Again, complex answer, but if we could isolate one independent factor, God vs. no God, and then watch the behavior, I think we'd find the non-believer to be generally more stable in his/her behavior than a believer. A believer would have to go through the process of working out the implications (upon realizing there is no God) for future behavior. Without the motive of Heaven, a reward they'd been expecting their entire lives, the sirens may well be too loud for them to resist.
I heard somewhere once, in a college class, that the average porn bills at hotel rooms are higher during Christian conferences than during any other conference. I don't know if that is true, but if so, it is quite disturbing. They won't be caught, so why not do it?
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#445908 - 2011-05-21 09:48:20
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
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I have also read somewhere that porn use is highest through the so-called Bible Belt region. More broadly on the sexual morality measure, Christians fair no better than the general population. Even though family values/sanctity of marriage is very high on the Christian values measuring stick, the divorce rate, adultery, pre-marital sex, Christians rank at about the same level, or worse, as the rest of the population. Studies have also demonstrated that across the board Christians are not much different morality-wise than non-Christians. And I suspect that looking generally at business/professional ethics or general compliance with the laws of the land, you will see little difference.
From the psychological standpoint of rewards vs punishments, immediacy is a very significant factor. If the carrot or stick is not applied in very close proximity to the behavior it is meant to control showing direct cause and effect, it is largely ineffective. Only those quite high on the maturity scale work well for deferred gratification. And deferred punishment is even less effective. And most indications are that Christians rank on the immature side of morality development, which could explain a lot.
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#446017 - 2011-05-21 19:21:48
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
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In the first paragraph I would say that there is immediacy with the reward/punishment of breaking a moral value in a Christian home, just as there is in most other homes. I punish my boys if they don't obey. The difference is that in many homes the subsequent scolding from the parents often includes words about being good so they can go to Heaven.... couched in more appropriate, less judgmental words possibly, but the message is the same. I think this is probably less true today than a generation ago. But, morning and evening worships drive that home. The last few mornings our worships have been about obedience to God. I'd say that all people respond to rewards, if administered properly, but Christians have the added bonus of growing up in a sub-culture that revolves.... *revolves* around ultimate, and eternal, punishment or reward.
As for Christian's moral development being on the immature side, that's an interesting statement. I'd hate to admit this is a possibility, but I'd not be surprised if it were true. Any studies that substantiate that?
Or, is there another factor at play here? Is it that the type of person, the mind, that is drawn to religion in the fist place is one who would be naturally less able to have good moral judgment? What other lifestyle differences between regular churchgoers and non-believers are there? I'd be interested to know.
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#446429 - 2011-05-23 08:11:49
Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
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Also, a similar perspective - Fowler's Stages of Faith Development...
If we correlate the development of faith with moral development, it seems many are stuck at early immature stages.
I think that most would understand that an essential element of faith would be to foster moral development. I think it also reasonable to expect that as one increases moral maturity there would be positive behavioral evidence of that higher moral development. (If not, what is the point exactly?) In any other area of life we learn, practice, improve and continue to progress by doing so until we reach an optimal level. If not, we abandon the activity, seek a different approach that does work, or settle into mediocrity.
And as has already been noted, Christians seem little different from non-Christians when it comes to moral performance. That seems a pretty strong indication of immature moral development. Something isn't working very well. Maybe it is because a reward/punishment approach to teaching moral values isn't all that effective especially when neither the reward or punishment is directly connected to the behavior either in time or substance.
Edited by Tom Wetmore (2011-05-23 10:31:22)
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