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#324006 - 2010-01-19 12:03:16 Would you still be a moral person if ____________?
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If you found out today, without a doubt that there was no God. How would your behavior change, your personality, your relationships et al?

When I was teaching and we covered existential literature, I would ask my students if there were no law against murder, would murder still be wrong? Incidentally, this question stems from a study of Camus' The Stranger

Are some of us being "good" simply because we're working toward an eternal reward? I realize this hints at Greek philosophy and even into the modern realm with the way atheists counter Christian apologetics.

This is all for now bwink

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#324015 - 2010-01-19 12:27:11 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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ALEX

THIS is a good question

most of us would think that we would continue to do
what is right

the thing is we would each have to ask our selfs
how would I want to be treated by others then
ask ourselfs how would I WANT to treat others

would we think how this would effect this
other person we would also have to think
how would my attaction affect me as a person

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#324022 - 2010-01-19 12:44:53 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: dgrimm60]
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I have asked myself this same question, only with a different ending to it.

I've seen many people turn into completely different people when presented with certain circumstances. Morals can become quite hazy, even for formerly stalwart people. Even pastors. But then, we've all heard stories and rumours.

The endings for alex's question might be:

- if you were convinced God wasn't looking
- if you are a victim of some evil in your past
- if you found yourself single
- if your earthly circumstances are currently hopeless
- if you have almost superhuman opposition, especially coming from within your own home

These are difficult trials, indeed!
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#324048 - 2010-01-19 13:53:02 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Gail]
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GAIL

WELL all these questions could be different threads

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#324057 - 2010-01-19 14:06:28 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Gail]
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Very interesting thoughts Gail.

pk


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#324061 - 2010-01-19 14:23:21 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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There are some really fine, caring athiests out there that don't murder or steal, etc. To them, this would be a moot question.



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#324068 - 2010-01-19 14:34:39 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: rudywoofs]
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There isn't a God anyway.
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#324074 - 2010-01-19 14:44:52 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: rudywoofs]
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Yeah, but there IS a Godhead with three Gods in one.


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#324091 - 2010-01-19 15:20:51 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Woody]
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I'm perplexed. Why hasn't anyone attempted to answer the question I proposed for themselves? Most of you are speaking either about the question or around the question or on a tangent from the question.

Outside of your religious beliefs and spiritual identity, what motivates you to do good? It doesn't matter what atheists think - what do you think? or whether this question should be modified to fit one's personal history. The very concept of what "good" begs the question: "If no God, is there still the "good?"

I've noticed a habit some posters have of immediately referencing issues and questions to their own personal histories and/or agendas. I'm not sure where this is coming from but if you were in my classroom, I would redirect your responses.

Maybe the question can't be answered? Maybe its very essence is inscrutable or ineffable but if we simply give up trying to struggle with it, there might come a time when we are called to task to answer why we believe and act as we do. Will we be able to respond?

I'm sorry if I might have ruffled some feathers but as a teacher, I've spent my life attempting to get people to think about hard questions - the ones that make us uncomfortable and even may push us outside of our comfort zones.

Alex (just trying to be as helpful as I can)
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#324098 - 2010-01-19 15:30:45 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: rudywoofs]
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ALEX

I DID my best to anwser you question

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#324109 - 2010-01-19 15:42:21 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Woody]
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HEY ALL

A PERSON can have morals and standards but are they
using those for there ownself or to honor GOD

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#324112 - 2010-01-19 15:47:26 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: dgrimm60]
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Oh, you mean we are in school? Okay-

I have no idea and wouldn't even want to hazard a guess.
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#324113 - 2010-01-19 15:49:03 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Gail]
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Whqt I mean is what I wish for myself and what happens in life are not always the same thing. Morality without God... means that we have to leave morality to our finite minds' ideas of it.
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#324114 - 2010-01-19 15:55:49 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Gail]
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And that is existentialism. Not a good topic for the forum. IMHO

Methinks the originator of this thread has a specific agenda in mind.
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#324121 - 2010-01-19 16:21:58 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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I don't know how I would be different, because right now, I can't wrap my mind around the fact that there is no GOD. I would like to think though, that I would basically be the same person. In my youth I was intentionally mean, and I really hated the feelings that stemmed from that, so I now strive not to cause pain to anyone, even though I know that I do from time to time it is completely unintentional.

In Sabbath School a week or so ago, we were talking along these lines, and a young person spoke up and said that the only reason they were "good" was because they didn't want to go to hell. I felt really bad for them, because in this line of thinking they also miss out on the goodness of GOD.


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#324123 - 2010-01-19 16:31:06 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: rudywoofs]
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As the originator of this thread, I can say categorically that I did have an agenda in mind. My agenda is to try to encourage posters to respond to ideas through a critical lens that does not first and foremost reflect personal histories and/or personal theological biases.

Shoot me. I'm guilty. bwink

Alex


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#324124 - 2010-01-19 16:34:46 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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Hey- I worked hard for that bias!!

:)
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#324127 - 2010-01-19 16:40:33 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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I don't think it's wise to use existentialism as a basis for your questions. It's humanism at its best. Your question certainly DOES ask for reflection of personal histories in order to answer what you asked.

Oh, whatever.


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#324128 - 2010-01-19 16:40:58 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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My behavior and values wouldn't change, but I know that is because of the Holy Spirit in my life. I'm sure that if I hadn't been converted to Christ, I would eventually have committed murder. But because of prayers in my behalf, the Holy Spirit led me to choose Christ, and after that God changed me. So I am what I am today because of Christ. Without Him, I'm certain I would have either been killed by now or been put in prison.

You ask whether it is wrong to murder if there is no God. Not in any absolute sense but only because it is against the laws of society, and people are punished for violating society's norms. Being constituted as they are, humans also usually punish themselves-- though not necessarily consciously-- because of their "wrong acts." But without God, there would be no violation of a universal moral law since all moral law proceeds from God. If God does not exist, then everything is permitted as far as the universe is concerned. Apart from God's existence, the universe is completely indifferent to morality. Morality is how things should be-- the rule of the ideal-- questions of right and wrong, whereas the universe of itself alone deals only with power and what actually is. It declares that all that is, is right.


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#324133 - 2010-01-19 16:53:25 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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If you found out today, without a doubt that there was no God. How would your behavior change, your personality, your relationships et al?

The only way to answer a question about "me" is through "my history and personal theologies".

First, I'd want to know how I found out. Is this a reliable discovery, or is it just someone else's opinion? The only reliable source I find for my personal beliefs has to come from within my realm of personal experiences.

Assuming I do come to the conclusion that God does not exist, I don't believe my personality would change in the least. My relationships would not change save my relationship with God. My behavior also would not change save my going to church (and church-like settings) and speaking to others about God.

I do not behave "morally" to please God. I behave "morally" because intrinsically, I feel it is the right thing to do. My own moral code is one based on respect for my fellow human being.

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#324141 - 2010-01-19 17:17:48 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Aubrey]
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MODERATOR POST - just tagging on to the end...

People of middle earth, please pay attention to the one rule that rings loud and clear here in the middle earth, otherwise known as the Original Thoughts forum.

NO quotes, please! It is not that hard to understand, I should think. I am seeing a significant disregard of late for this rule here.

I know many of you arrive at these topics, as do I, via the "Active Topics" option in the menu bar and so may bypass the statement of the rule both in the main Forums menu and at the top of the topics list of the Original Thoughts forum. BUT that excuse is most useful for newbies. Most of you who seem consistently doing the quote box routine here have been around long enough to know the rule by now. And the "Active Topics" menu option does clearly identify the specific forum in which each listed topic is found. Please pay attention to that.



And for the record, this is a great topic for this forum, Alex. I like it and will dig into the old brain for a few thoughts later when I have more time.

OK. Back to your regularly scheduled programing...

Carry on!

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#324263 - 2010-01-19 21:34:40 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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I think every one knows instinctively a difference between good and bad.

with that, we we are naturally carnal so our thoughts will be self centered all the time. then again, i dont know if this would be a question if God wasnt. We would be animals and acting as such. all things would be for self.

and atheist, regardless what they believe or lack thereof, it is not by their own power that they dont murder and steal. plus they secretly believe so they're nice and obedient just to be on the safe side.

my aunt once said that if you dont believe you might as well do every thing that you want to do. screw the law and otherwise because you'll only live once. its the fact that we can't prove His existence that keeps alot of us under foot. besides, what shame is it in hoping for better? i accept the promise and i personally want it in full.

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#324319 - 2010-01-19 22:52:53 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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Hmmm, not an easy question to answer. Its hard to separate my predisposed way of thinking in answering the question.

Can I live in way that is best for myself and others, I would hope so, because of the desire to survive. I would hope rational thinking is still a priority. If I am in a relationship and I do something to the other person that changes it from satisfactory to unsatisfactory, I should be able to recognize that and make the correct choice to return that relationship that benefits both of us.

To me 'being' good is different from doing what is 'right'. I prefer the latter. Doing what is 'right' has immediate and delayed rewards.
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#324325 - 2010-01-19 22:58:04 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: CoAspen]
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Atheists can be moral, law-abiding people without believing in God. Sheesh..
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#324327 - 2010-01-19 23:01:42 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: CoAspen]
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Let's not even begin to believe we could do any good thing without God. Atheists who live moral lives do so because, even though they don't officially believe in God, they see the beauty of His law and abide by it.

Unless we are ready to trash the Bible right now all we need to do is read the history of how wicked men become when they throw off the constraint of God.

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#324329 - 2010-01-19 23:05:02 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: karl]
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the OP of this thread was about having NO GOD EXISTING.

BTW, Satan can do good things too.
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#324338 - 2010-01-19 23:13:12 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: rudywoofs]
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Yes, I'm describing a scenario of no God existing. You could kiss everything you love goodbye. The thoughts of men and women would be only evil continually, since that's where they got to WITH GOD EXISTING. Unless, of course, you believe God causes evil. If you believed that you could convince yourself that we are more righteous than God.


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#324341 - 2010-01-19 23:21:01 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: karl]
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There would not necessarily be evil everywhere if there was no God. That assumes that there is also no Satan. I believe mankind is inherently decent and would make his own laws and have morals similar to what we have with God.

BTW, you are not supposed to quote in this thread, as per moderator instructions.
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#324375 - 2010-01-19 23:45:44 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: rudywoofs]
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Great point Pam, I never thought of that, that if there was no GOD then there wouldn't be a satan either.
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#324380 - 2010-01-19 23:51:30 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Liz]
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Well, good grief. There wouldn't be a you or a me, either.


Edited by karl (2010-01-19 23:54:14)

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#324383 - 2010-01-19 23:59:00 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: karl]
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Complaints about the OP to go to Abelisle. LOL That's what happens when you play with existentialism. The OP's question was moot from the start.
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#324389 - 2010-01-20 00:15:05 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: rudywoofs]
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Hey all ... I wasn't going to say anything but oh well ... you've talked me into it.

This thread has given me a good laugh.

I quoted myself and it got deleted !! How is it that my own words are not 'original' !!! Okay. I don't mean to criticize the moderator. I suspect when he saw the quotes that he didn't realize WHO I was quoting. !!!!

I just thought it was funny :)
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#324394 - 2010-01-20 00:29:25 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: karl]
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[Karl,]

You are having difficulty understanding the question??

What if!!!!! That is the question!!! It is not about your current value system, but what if there was no God!! It won't hurt you or damage you...just suppose......


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#324403 - 2010-01-20 01:22:54 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: rudywoofs]
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Yes, Satan can do good things, but I don't know of any good that he's actually done since he fell into sin and rebellion. He may appear to do good, perhaps, but it is invariably for an evil, selfish purpose. At least as far as I know. For instance, he is persistent and persevering, which is usually a good characteristic, but Satan uses all that energy to advance his kingdom of death.

It's true that atheists do some good things and also that they can be ethical and kind. Much of that can be explained by the fact that many of them grew up believing in Christ at one time. They also live in the world in which they can't help but learn values that resulted from religious beliefs. Most atheists don't live in accordance with their intellectual convictions-- they are still living according to the morality that grows out of religions that they claim they reject. For instance, some will say that we should love everyone, but that is a belief that comes from Christ and from other religions, not from a universe without religious faith. It takes a long time for the behavior and the emotions to follow the lead of the mind, and it only does it after a great struggle against the morality they learned as children.

Some excellent studies have shown that atheists do good only when it is to their benefit and rarely when it is not. Athiesits have often sacrificed themselves for a cause that they believe in, but they almost never sacrifice themselves for the benefit of their enemy. Christ taught us to be kind and loving even to those who do us harm, and many Christians obey that commandment. There's nothing in atheism-- no atheistic teacher or philosopher-- that teaches this. Fredrich Neitszche, the father of "modern atheism," turned Christ's commandments on their head and taught just the opposite.

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#324429 - 2010-01-20 07:54:38 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: rudywoofs]
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MODERATOR POST... ONCE AGAIN -

PLEASE READ. AND THINK BEFORE YOU POST. I AM SHOUTING BECAUSE NOBODY SEEMS TO HAVE NOTICED MY PRIOR POST. (CAN YOU HEAR ME NOW?)

AS PAM HAS JUST REMINDED EVERYONE, THERE IS TO BE NO QUOTING HERE. (Thanks Pam...)

And if I may also more gently suggest, it seems some have not read, or thought about, much of the rest of the topic before they blindly react. This forum requires you to actually think before you post.

Thanks for your attention and cooperation...

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#324451 - 2010-01-20 11:18:25 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Tom Wetmore]
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I apologize for breaking the rule. It wasn't until Pam jabbed me that I understood this other facet of it. My ignorance stems from the "original thought" idea. I thought we just weren't supposed to quote the Bible or SOP or other religious writers in defense of our thinking. I didn't know the prohibition extended to quoting the part of the previous post we were responding to.

Or does "original thoughts" mean that we're not supposed to be using the other posts as a springboard for our own thoughts?

Sorry, I just don't know the etiquette here.

But, to make up for it, I leave you with a fairly original thought which has no relationship to anything I've seen on clubadentist yet.

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#324452 - 2010-01-20 11:28:16 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: John317]
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That post is still not answering the original question, would you...., not just a standard answer still involving God!
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#324455 - 2010-01-20 11:37:02 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: CoAspen]
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Would I still be a moral person? Probably not. Why should I be? It's not like what I did would matter.
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#324501 - 2010-01-20 13:57:54 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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No, I would not be any different today in either personality or behavior if I found out there was no God. The reason is that whether there is a God or not, I have found that following the NT teachings of Christ lead to the good life on this earth. It makes good sense & "works" whether its promises of heaven are true or not. I've found this out by persoanl experience and not by just hearing or reading about it.

The answer to your second question, about murder, is that without God, it would not be wrong in any absolute sense but it would still be wrong from the viewpoint of human society. Apart from God there would be no absolute moral law by which to measure right and wrong. Yet, because people are influenced by the values of the society in which they grow up, most people would still feel in their "conscience" that it's wrong to murder; but if someone did not have such feelings, they would be no more "wrong" than those who do feel that murder is "wrong." That, however, would only be a subjective judgment and not an objective one.

Your third question asks if some of us are being "good" simply because of the expectation of heaven. My answer is yes, of course. I think most believers begin their Christian walk in that way, but as we mature spiritually we should have more profound reasons for living and behaving as we do. The Bible doesn't condemn people for being motivated by hopes of heaven, but God does expect us to grow so that they are not the only reason for doing good. Our reason should be to help our fellow human beings. However, if we posit that there is no God, I don't believe there's any way to show that someone who doesn't help other people is wrong in any absolute sense. In that case, all we can say is that the person is anti-social or that his acts violate society's laws and therefore should be punished.

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#324508 - 2010-01-20 14:23:24 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: karl]
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I would be the same person I am now.

And I'm tired of Karl saying I "jabbed" him. Stop it.
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#324781 - 2010-01-20 23:01:22 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: rudywoofs]
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If there was no God (and the atheists, and evolutionists were right)and there was no future reward or punishment and life as we now know it was pointless,meaningless,and completely existential, why would I not want to: cheat on my income taxes,have sex with as many girls as possible, disrespect my parents, get loaded as often as possible,inflict greater hurt on those who have hurt me first,gather to myself possessions without having to pay for them,lie about others in order to gain some sort of advantage,eliminate anyone who stands in the way of my prosperity and happiness,ect...? "I don't wanna work, I just wanna play in the sun all day!" What are they going to do,kill me? I would quote another Jewish guy who had the same ideas as me (copycat!)but I think it's against the rules.In other words, I'd probably be a liberal.


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#324787 - 2010-01-20 23:31:26 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: doug yowell]
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A couple of questions directed to no one in particular, but rather to those who are in the group who believe that if there were no God, then they would act as immorally as they wished:

Do you act morally now because God directs moral behavior, or do you act morally because you feel it is the right thing to do? Outside of God's moral code for behavior, have you any empathy at all?

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#324797 - 2010-01-20 23:57:07 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Aubrey]
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Thanks all for your thoughts. Great question, Alex (and I've been really enjoying your presence and contributions here).

I don't believe I would change my actions or the internal moral compass that dictates them if I knew there were no God: I already do things (or avoid doing them) on the basis of whether they enhance the sum total of human happiness or misery rather than in hope of reward or to avoid punishment.

In thinking about morality I find Kohlberg's framework very helpful, and in that framework a morality that is all about gaining reward or avoiding punishment is a very low level of moral reasoning (Level 2 of 6, if I recall correctly).
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#324809 - 2010-01-21 01:15:46 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Aubrey]
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I think the Bible shows that God realizes that some people need rules and threats and promises of prosperity in order to do right. He understands that, and He is willing to meet us where we are. Most "baby Christians" start out that way. I know I did. Now, even if I were to find out that there is no God, I wouldn't change. But as I see it today, that is God's doing, and not the way I would be if I hadn't first accepted the Bible is true.

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#324852 - 2010-01-21 08:56:47 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: John317]
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I think that if I did not believe in God that I would probably not subscribe to any sort of moral code, even if I "felt" that there were such things as right and wrong, because I would dismiss them as evolutionary flukes and pointless rules that religion has imposed on society.

I would probably be a hedonistic anarchist. If not, I would be a dishonest atheist. If in the end, nothing matters... why pretend it matters now?

Which is what makes Truth so appealing...
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#324861 - 2010-01-21 09:21:29 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: SivartM]
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THAT is a very interesting point

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#324866 - 2010-01-21 10:09:11 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: SivartM]
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Interesting thoughts. Some more questions: Why would you continue living? If there is no right or wrong, and if nothing in the end mattered and nothing mattered in the here and now, then why even bother with hedonistic anarchy? Wouldn't that, too, be a complete waste of time?


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#324870 - 2010-01-21 10:30:18 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Aubrey]
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Good point. The only reason I can think of to live is to further evolution by reproducing as much as possible. Of course, I would probably be stuck between that and having no children because bringing children into an utterly pointless existence would be cruel... except without a moral code, nothing is cruel.

Also, I suppose, I would probably just think, "Well, as long as I'm here, I might as well draw some fleeting pleasure out of the whole thing." I think that's basically what hedonism is about... nothing matters anyway, so we might as well make the most of it and try to have as much pleasure as possible before we turn back into mud.
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#324914 - 2010-01-21 12:50:44 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: SivartM]
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An observation here.....
Based on some of the postings, suggesting an existence w/o God would be pointless, many are still thinking with their current belief system and preconceived ideas which is not what the original question is hypothesizing! Not suggesting it is an easy question but surely we can have reasons to live or be in a harmonious community. Our current definition of the word 'moral' might not fit. I think we could find some examples in the animal kingdom where groups have a self designed harmonious relationship that is for the benefit of the group. So, hopefully, the more highly developed brain of humans would do much better.

Some ideas suggest there is no reason for living outside of having God. What? No one is simply enjoying their everyday life? No pleasure, no fulfillment? Family, friends are meaningless?

Come on everyone...imagine outside the box!!!
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#324952 - 2010-01-21 14:41:07 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: CoAspen]
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Exactly, CoAspen.

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#324979 - 2010-01-21 15:29:06 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Aubrey]
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Yes, family, friends, and the simple "joy" (which is caused by chemical reactions) of life are all utterly meaningless if there is no ultimate purpose in which at least one thing you do has the minutest significance even after our planet is destroyed. Sure, you CAN enjoy those things without believing in God, but by thinking that there is some sort of point or fulfillment in those things you are really creating your own imaginary ultimate purpose, in which case you might as well be a theist, because at least it makes sense for theists to believe in "purpose".
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#325024 - 2010-01-21 17:32:10 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: SivartM]
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The ultimate purpose would be to enjoy the life you have! Nothing wrong with that!

I think the reason why Christians have trouble with this concept, no God, because we have been taught that there is no purpose to existense with out God. The animal kingdom seems to 'enjoy', what ever that means for them, and continuew to exist with out any apparent knowledge of God or life after death. So why can't the 'higher' order of humans find purpose?

So, what I am hearing, is that people are 'good' only because there is a God and a future after death. The adage 'do to your neighbor as you want them to do to you' has no value to them with out the reward.

As asked in the original question or at least insinuated, why are you serving God? Maybe we could understand better the story of the two groups of people serving God, but yet one group is rejected and the other is accepted. This question being posed and the answer says much about our motives. A case can be made that our 'service' to mankind and to Godmis selfishly motivated. NO God....then I don't care!!! I might as well curl up and die!


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#325035 - 2010-01-21 17:44:53 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: CoAspen]
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CoAspen, I so very much appreciate your post. It resonates with an idea I've been thinking on for the past 6 years or so: "The ultimate purpose would be to enjoy the life you have!"

Even though this thread is about "what if...there were no God", I truly believe that our sole purpose is to enjoy life, that ideally, God wants nothing more than for us to truly enjoy the good life He has prepared for us. I even created a term for this: euanthropism--living a good, human life as God intended us to do. He does not ask us to be anything more (or less) than human. And He does provide a great list of guidelines for us to follow to find the ultimate happiness in life.

It's not about sinning or pointing out one another's faults. Life is about finding the road to happiness and living it as He intended.

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#325046 - 2010-01-21 17:56:25 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Aubrey]
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I'm not saying that I'm only "good" for the rewards... but if there was no God, there would be no moral code higher than myself. So I wouldn't need to be "good" because I would determine "good", and "good" would be what's "good for me", which is pretty much how things operate unless we are either conditioned by society to maintain a survivable level of "goodness" or believe that there is a God who is good.

To just enjoy life and be good because that is what is most happy for us even though it won't matter in a million years... just sounds sentimental to me. And you don't find much sentimentality in a godless world.

Since we don't know what animals are thinking, what we determine their motives to be in living in relative harmony depend on our worldview. While we might say that animals are good and happy because they work together and seem to enjoy things, others might say that animals cooperate so that they can just survive because we live in a big scary pointless world.

I'm not saying I disagree completely with either of you... but there really would be no ultimate purpose, especially not one as happy-sounding as "just enjoy life". Maybe more like "the Big Crunch" or whatever the theory of The End is these days.
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#325050 - 2010-01-21 18:00:26 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Aubrey]
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I didn't think the OP asked or insinuated that as part of the idea at all.

But if it did, why am I serving God? I'm not sure I am. I'm an altruistic person by nature. And NO, I don't want to discuss what "nature" means!!!!!


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#325073 - 2010-01-21 18:34:07 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: rudywoofs]
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there will be people in heaven that never knew
about JESUS sacrifice so with this in mind there
will be people living a godly life.....so these
people have to have lived their life having some
morals and standard to live by

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#325154 - 2010-01-21 20:01:14 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: dgrimm60]
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I tend to agree with you dgrimm.

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#325160 - 2010-01-21 20:07:16 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: pkrause]
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WOW that is neat we agree

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#325177 - 2010-01-21 20:42:53 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: dgrimm60]
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But if they go to heaven, then they believed in God... right? So that doesn't really have anything to do with "what if you didn't believe in God".
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#325178 - 2010-01-21 20:48:46 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: SivartM]
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The notion that there is no morality without Christianity simply does not survive an open-eyed look around...
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#325181 - 2010-01-21 20:56:19 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Bravus]
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Sure there can be morality without Christianity... just not without any sort of belief in a higher power. If there is nobody or nothing to determine morality other than ourselves, there's no morality at all. If we happen to not kill each other, it's because we are intelligent enough to know that killing people will probably end in some sort of punishment, not because we believe that it's wrong to murder other people. Presented with the choice of murdering someone or being killed ourselves, we'll take care of ourselves.
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#325185 - 2010-01-21 21:12:13 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: SivartM]
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Here's Kohlberg's scheme that I mentioned earlier:

Level 1 (Pre-Conventional)
1. Obedience and punishment orientation (How can I avoid punishment?)
2. Self-interest orientation (What's in it for me?)

Level 2 (Conventional)
3. Interpersonal accord and conformity (Social norms) (The good boy/good girl attitude)
4. Authority and social-order maintaining orientation (Law and order morality)

Level 3 (Post-Conventional)
5. Social contract orientation
6. Universal ethical principles (Principled conscience)

Can you see, Sivart, that your response above assumes that everyone in the world is operating at Stages 1 and 2 (i.e. Level 1) of this hierarchy of forms of moral reasoning?
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#325198 - 2010-01-21 21:29:13 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Bravus]
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I'm talking about the logical conclusions of atheism. Most people would rather think happy thoughts than try to figure out WHY they think such-and-such is wrong. "Good" atheists are in the first four stages; they are "good" because society says they should be good and they are rewarded for good and punished for bad. They are not "good" because they believe that there is any universal moral code.
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#325205 - 2010-01-21 21:41:15 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: SivartM]
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Can there be a universal moral code without a divine guarantor? Can a universal moral code arise entirely from 'within' humanity?
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#325249 - 2010-01-21 22:22:46 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Bravus]
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Yes, I believe its possible, although I', not sure it can be proven since man kind seems to have chosen to invent 'Gods' for themselves and not always calling them "gods".
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#325263 - 2010-01-21 22:33:38 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: SivartM]
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I disagree with this in part. My father and my step-mother are atheists. I can agree that they are not "good" because they believe that there is any universal moral code; however, I do not agree that they are "good" because they are rewarded for good and punished for bad. Rather, they act out of an internal sense of kindness toward others--some might define this kindness as "love" (I know, I certainly do). They fed their children, they gave their children love and encouragement; they helped the needy, gave to the poor; they cared for one another and for their elderly parents; the extended their hand to others in need; and so on and so forth.


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#325269 - 2010-01-21 22:40:23 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Aubrey]
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#325275 - 2010-01-21 22:48:51 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Woody]
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Jesus says that any good done without him is nothing. I always thought that was very interesting.

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#325316 - 2010-01-21 23:46:43 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: pkrause]
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Has anyone seen the movie "The Invention of Lying"? The premise is along the lines of the OP, that there is no GOD and no satan. The people tell the truth--according to them--to the point where if they think it they say it--even if it is painful to the other person. The movie was really funny! But all the way through it I kept thinking about this thread--because I have no life like that--anyways, these people still had a "moral" code of sorts, they still had police and jail, but they believed everything the other person said, because no one lied. They even showed how a burglary would go in this society.

I won't give any more away in case anyone would like to watch it, but it was very good, especially in light of this thread.
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#325374 - 2010-01-22 08:23:13 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Liz]
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#325375 - 2010-01-22 08:24:05 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Aubrey]
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In correction of my previous post, #325263:

I apologize for using the quote feature. My original post, which can be seen in this thread on page 7 contained a quote from the person I was responding directly to. Without the quote, I felt that my response makes little sense. Therefore, I am restating, using original words, the point I was trying to make in the first place.

SivartM (forgive me for not quoting you) you implied, but did not say directly that "non-bad" non-believers-in-God are not in Kohlberg's *cough* *cough* last two stages, but rather the former ones; that non-believers-in-God are non-bad due to the fact that their peers on this planet dictate they should be non-bad and they are meted according to their behavior.

SivartM, you also implied, but did not say directly, that these non-believers-in-God are not non-bad due to the fact that these humans adhere to the idea that there is an all-encompassing good-behavior model.

Now, with those thoughts in mind, I sa:

I disagree with this in part. My father and my step-mother are atheists. I can agree that they are not "good" because they believe that there is any universal moral code; however, I do not agree that they are "good" because they are rewarded for good and punished for bad. Rather, they act out of an internal sense of kindness toward others--some might define this kindness as "love" (I know, I certainly do). They fed their children, they gave their children love and encouragement; they helped the needy, gave to the poor; they cared for one another and for their elderly parents; the extended their hand to others in need; and so on and so forth.

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#325376 - 2010-01-22 08:26:05 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: dgrimm60]
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I have heard it said that all moral laws and
standard of any country or eithic group of people
get their laws and morals and standards for the
bible......if this is the case then with out GOD
there is no law....no morals....no standards


just thinking here

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#325377 - 2010-01-22 08:47:44 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: dgrimm60]
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Time for bed now, but I have an idea for a parallel theistic and atheistic consideration of each of Kohlberg's stages in a bit more detail, which I will most likely write as a blog post tomorrow morning and link to this thread in the hope that it will be useful/interesting.
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#325380 - 2010-01-22 09:13:15 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Bravus]
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#325479 - 2010-01-22 12:47:13 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: dgrimm60]
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You're thinking with your current belief system. The question is to think with out it. With out a God. Could there be a society existing with out a diety. So I take it that you believe that is impossible, yet we do have examples, which I have alluded to, that suggest it would be possible. Can people explaine how it is not possible without useing their current belief system as the reason??
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#325526 - 2010-01-22 14:00:07 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: CoAspen]
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Since I created this thread I think I shoild add some input here. It seems there are 2 main schools of thought here: 1)I'm only good because there is a God and 2)why be good if there is no God?

When I spoke to my wife about this, her response was, "Wow, I guess they just need to grow to have goodness be a part of who they are?"

Finally another question keeps coming to mind, which is why do some Adventists have so much trouble thinking about ideas if God isn't in the picture? I'm not saying this is a bad thing, just that I'm worried that some of us haven't been educated to think in wider dimensions and to think for ourselves. EGW warned us that we must think not like others but for ourselves.

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#325529 - 2010-01-22 14:04:39 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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There is a 3rd school of thought that you didn't mention.....several of us have said WE WOULDN'T CHANGE THE WAY WE ARE.

But gaaimbmodmotfa.
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#325533 - 2010-01-22 14:11:10 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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In my opinion it's not really a matter of whether or not goodness is somehow inherent in us. My point is that having a universal moral standard without a god is impossible... so if we want to be honest with ourselves, why try to be "good" when there is no "good" anyway? If it's somehow inherent in us, it's just religious and social oppression... and it doesn't matter what we do. So if you feel guilty for something, ignore it, because you aren't doing anything "wrong".

Basically, whether or not we seem to have some inherited tendencies toward "goodness" (no doubt brought on by closed-minded religionists), it still doesn't matter what we do, because there is no universal moral standard. If someone follows those inherited tendencies toward "goodness", good for them, but such a thing is unnatural, and they shouldn't expect other people to not kill them and plunder their goods.
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#325535 - 2010-01-22 14:14:42 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: SivartM]
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DID YOU READ my post about 7 post back same thinking here


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#325536 - 2010-01-22 14:16:45 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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ABOUT you wifes quote that sounds like evolution


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#325537 - 2010-01-22 14:17:44 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: SivartM]
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in skimming over this I can say

Some of the most Professing Christians are the meanest folks I have encountered.

Some of the confirmed Atheist (not those who are just too lazy to investigate God) are the most moral folks.

Some years ago in USA Today, it has some stats between confirmed Atheists, and Southern Baptist, and only something like 2% of the Confirmed (belonging to an Atheist organization type) the Southern Baptist had around 50% divorced.

I am not saying Divorced are always immoral, nor are both parties etc etc
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#325643 - 2010-01-22 18:07:52 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Stan]
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As promised, blog post: http://www.bravus.com/blog/?p=1562

It's longish, but hopefully interesting and useful in this discussion.
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#325653 - 2010-01-22 18:30:54 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Bravus]
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I personally never claimed that all morality came from Christianity. I said that without "A god", or some "higher power" or "mystical force" or whatever, there would be no morality above the individual. I can do what I want, and you can do what you want. From there on it's "survival of the fittest".

Atheists who are good people and act kindly and love their children and believe in right and wrong (at least in practice if not in theory) are either doing so because society says to be good or because they are just living out their inherited tendencies to "good" that came from theistic ancestors believing in some sort of moral code.
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#325659 - 2010-01-22 18:41:40 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Bravus]
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I didn't see that as a running theme in the thread at all. Some people said it, but there were those of us who didn't think we would change at all.


but here again, momn


Edited by Tom Wetmore (2010-01-23 12:43:05)
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#325679 - 2010-01-22 19:12:43 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Bravus]
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Interesting blog bravus. But on one comment you made about India and China. Don't forget that there where a couple of apostles I believe that did get to India and China and if not apostles than a few missionaries made it that far. There are quite a few Christians in those countries. I believe that Christianity made it to almost all areas of the world. So there are christian influenices throughout many other religions.

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#325682 - 2010-01-22 19:15:21 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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I used to think all the time without God in the picture. But for the past 4 years or so, God has become everything for me. Sure, I can go back to thinking the way I used to, but why would I want to? Thinking without God led me down a dead-end road without God for several decades.

Neitzsche was an atheist, in fact the father of modern atheism, yet all of his writings show that God, or rather the signifance of God's absence, was always a part of his thinking.

Thinking for ourselves does not mean that we won't think as some other people do. But we shouldn't be merely copying others, or reflecting other men's thoughts. To do us any real good, beliefs have to become part of ourselves.

As long as we're referencing Ellen White, we might as well reference the fact that she never advised people to dismiss God or the Bible from their thinking. There's nothing "wise" or "intelligent" in omitting God from one's viewpoint.

She didn't mean that we shouldn't take into consideration what Christ and the prophets taught. She meant that we should study those things, think them through carefully, know what we believe and why we believe it, and learn to apply the principles of the gospel to our lives personally. But this is not at all the same as thinking without God in the picture. I don't see a bit of advantage to doing that.

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#325685 - 2010-01-22 19:22:43 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: John317]
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Very good points John, I'm in agreement with them.

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#325696 - 2010-01-22 19:37:10 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: pkrause]
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BRAVUS

YES THIS was an interesting and long article...but
each stage has to have some foundation of what morals
are or are not......where does this foundation come
from???? if we each person can choose their foundation
then these 6 catagories are possible to accept.....

like PKRAUSE their are chirstians in almoste every
country.... so with that said we are back to what foundaion
even other relgions have some type of god that they
worship and claim their morals from.....

the only group would be atheist that claim no higher power
to gain their morals from

which brings me back to what I WAS TOLD that all
laws and morals and standards from every nation and language
groups and got their laws---morals---standards from
the bible

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#325699 - 2010-01-22 19:40:39 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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The hypothetical is always controlled completely by it's creator. TV is a good example but given that...since the thread demands no God,who then determines if there is such a thing as good? Who decides a contrasting bad or does that exist? How would we be able to know with a certainty which was which? If history has shown us anything, concerning this, the most obvious answer would seem to be, the strongest! Didn't Adolf Hitler and others determine the meaning of moral? Nazi guards never flinched when asked to eliminate the vermin.Didn't the streets of Paris run red with blood under the watchful eye of the Goddess of Reason?I'm not sure that EGW intended that thinking for ourselves should include eliminating the truths of Scripture from the equation.Would we just need to grow into being good?Hypothetically speaking,maybe.


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#325701 - 2010-01-22 19:42:26 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: dgrimm60]
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I think that the disciple THOMAS went to INDIA

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#325702 - 2010-01-22 19:43:16 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: dgrimm60]
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and yes there have been missionaries in almost
evey country

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#325703 - 2010-01-22 19:43:59 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: doug yowell]
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Just because there's no God doesn't automatically mean there's no good.

And all laws and morals do NOT come from the Bible.
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#325706 - 2010-01-22 19:58:52 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: rudywoofs]
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HEY ALL

they reason I SAID this is because most countires have
laws against stealing---laws against killing laws against
adultery----laws against lying or false witness----they have morals to repect their parents and the elderly----they have
laws or morals about not taking thier god name in vain

were do these countires get these laws???? did each
country or group of people just come up with these laws


all of these are in the bible

now I AM NOT TRYING to get into a arguement all I
want people to see that most if not all laws were
GOD'S LAWS from the beginning

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#325722 - 2010-01-22 21:25:29 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: rudywoofs]
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Pam how do we know there's not? :):):):):):)

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#325777 - 2010-01-22 23:01:44 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: pkrause]
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#325780 - 2010-01-22 23:04:28 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Bravus]
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is she going to be ok? Some (weaker) dad's can lose it and panic...
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#325788 - 2010-01-22 23:43:14 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: pkrause]
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Because I confirmed it with higher authorities, in answer to pk's question.

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dgrimm60 Read Hammurabi's Code
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#325805 - 2010-01-23 02:23:21 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: rudywoofs]
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Of course you are right, but without God and without the Bible, it's all just a matter of opinion. Someone's "good" may be someone else's "bad," and only the most powerful or the majority can enforce their value system through laws which determine what's legal and illegal, i.e., "right" and "wrong." If someone comes up to you and smashes you in the face or steals from you, it will make you mad and you can say it's wrong according to human laws, but none of that will matter to the one who takes those actions if he's convincted there's no God and no moral law. If there's no universal law, and he can get away with it, there's no reason from the criminal's viewpoint why he shouldn't do it.

Morals that come from the state are changeable. If our freedom does not come from God, then the state is the one who gives it to you; and if it gives it to you, it has the right to take it from you whenever it has the will and the power to do so.

God's existence is the only guarantee of justice in the universe. Without Him, the only justice is that which exists in this present life, and I think everyone would agree that there is little justice in the here and now. Untold millions of innocent people, including millions of children, have been slaughtered without their murderers being caught or punished. And even if the murderer is caught, there still is often no justice because they are either found not guilty or else they serve only a few years in prison. If there is no God and no afterlife-- no "judgment"-- then it seems obvious that the universe is completely indifferent to any of humanity's concepts of justice or morality.

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#325809 - 2010-01-23 03:51:38 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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[Regarding the OP...]

Because no factual reality can be proven or disproved by theory
the question can only elicit opinions of what is thought to be possible with no assurance of certainty. Look at how many theories of past accepted masters of science, are proving to be false after all, when subjected to the light of present day technology and modern discoveries.
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#325813 - 2010-01-23 04:12:17 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: LifeHiscost]
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The moderator, Tom, doesn't want any quotes on this thread.

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#325911 - 2010-01-23 12:59:02 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: John317]
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And I might note for those not paying attention to the rule that I may respond by simply deleting the whole post rather than trying to figure out how to edit it for contextual sense...
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#325927 - 2010-01-23 13:28:40 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Tom Wetmore]
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offtopic

I tried to remove my quote, but it was too late and I couldn't do it. Sorry, Tom. I forgot this was the Original Thoughts" thread... mea culpa
backtopic
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#325929 - 2010-01-23 13:33:12 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: rudywoofs]
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I was under the impression that this thread was supposed to be asking how we think we would be if there was no God. So talking about God on this thread is sort of moot, if the OP was really intending that we think about his question.
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#326060 - 2010-01-23 16:55:37 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: rudywoofs]
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Very good point Pam!

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#326083 - 2010-01-23 17:44:12 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: pkrause]
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No-one is advocating for godless thinking: the original question Alex asked is a hypothetical, and a way in to an interesting discussion of the relationship of morality and spirituality. These are things worth discussing, in our attempt to better understand our obligations to God and to our fellow human beings.

I'll try now (once I nuke some coffee and make some toast) to respond to a few of the points raised in response to my blog post. I won't use quotes so you'll need to have read the rest of the thread or at least the relevant posts, but I will respond to people's points by name.
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#326096 - 2010-01-23 17:56:09 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Bravus]
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Pam mentioned that my characterisation of 'Christians' in the blog post didn't represent her view, or even reflect the feeling of this thread as a whole. I agree: I was really reacting more to my whole experience of Christian arguments in this field over many years, and to some of the stronger views being put in this thread, such as those of SivartM and dgrimm60, who are claiming that all reality is derived from Christian roots (in the latter case) or from 'some form of divinity' in the former. Christian thought on this issue, as on almost every issue, is enormously broad, and no single characterisation is going to take in all perspectives.

I think the argument that, because there were a few Christian missionaries to India in the first couple of centuries AD, that every moral principle in a country that has been Hindu for thousands of years since is rooted in the Bible is a very far-fetched case to try to make. And India was just one of the examples I chose - what about unreached tribes in the Amazon? Many of them still have some of the same moral codes described in the 10 Commandments. Clearly some moral principles *can* arise in isolation from the Biblical influence.

We can ascribe that to the Holy Spirit's direct action in the heart of all people everywhere, or we can ascribe it to the fact that these rules Just Work: a society without 'thou shalt not kill, thou shalt not steal, thou shalt not commit adultery' rules is not a healthy or stable society...
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#326110 - 2010-01-23 18:13:12 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: LifeHiscost]
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Just a word..

I suspect those who use quotes etc will soon lose the ability to post in here.
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#326141 - 2010-01-23 19:02:26 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Bravus]
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Bravus that is why I mentioned that Christianity had gotten to that part of the world at one point not that it actually got rooted in somehow. And I do agree about the Amazon statement you made. I believe that Pastor Doug Batchelor in one of his lecture's went through many countries that have no christianity still have a moral code. And as a matter of fact they have even found a group of people that were actually keeping the Sabbath that had never had anybody preach to them! I thought that was very interesting when I heard that.

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#326292 - 2010-01-23 22:21:51 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Stan]
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So be it and let it be done...

Sorry for the disruption...

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#326405 - 2010-01-24 09:29:29 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Tom Wetmore]
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IF both the JEWISH NATION AND ARAB NATIONS came
form ABRAHAM then they must have had the same morals
and standards and laws taught to them...

were did ARBRHAM get his from GOD


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#326408 - 2010-01-24 09:35:07 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: dgrimm60]
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HEY ALL

JUST another thought

GOD gave the laws----morals----stardards to ADAM AND EVE

NOAH I am sure was taught these same laws---
morals----stardards..... it was NOAH and his wife and
NOAH's 3 sons and their wife's that repopulated the earth

I am sure that they taught their offspring these same
laws----morals----stardards


so to make a long story short
all laws----morals----stardards had to come from GOD


again just thinking here


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#326456 - 2010-01-24 12:39:02 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: dgrimm60]
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Don't forget dgrimm that even though both came from Abraham, he really didn't do much training of Ismael after a certain time. But you can still tell that many of the health rules (laws) that the jews practice are also being practiced by the Arabs. But just like the christians they wanted to distants themselves from the Jews.

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#326457 - 2010-01-24 12:41:58 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: dgrimm60]
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dgrimm don't forget that Methuselah lived right up to the time of the flood. So yes you are correct about them orally passing on all the things that were learned from A&E.

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#326551 - 2010-01-24 16:36:33 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: pkrause]
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Hmmmm, aren't we wondering off topic here?
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#326555 - 2010-01-24 16:41:22 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: CoAspen]
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COASPEN

how are we wondering off topic?????


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#326559 - 2010-01-24 16:44:31 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: CoAspen]
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A suggestion, start another thread about the belief that Man couldn't have survived w/o a moral law from God.

This thread is supposed to be about YOUR way of life w/o a God. We have a lack of originality going on!!
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#326561 - 2010-01-24 16:49:37 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: CoAspen]
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I think it is hard to separate the 2 thoughts


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#327564 - 2010-01-27 04:04:19 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: dgrimm60]
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My ethical views are based on reason and empathy with the goal of maximizing joy and minimizing suffering. I believe that we are all connected and therefore whatever we do to others is going to affect us as well in some way.

Rather than focusing on what is "right" and "wrong" I think it is more useful to see what is balanced. I find this a much better system in the complex world we live in because no rule or law can ever hope to cover every situation.

I also believe there is an intuitional awareness that becomes available when we tell ourselves the truth, become open to our own humanity, and when we abandon attempts at meaning through ego gratification.

I have come to all of these concepts through living life, observation, and experiences of trial and error. I cannot claim that it is the "best" way, but in my life experience, it has been the most successful at maximizing joy in my life and reducing suffering.

To me, that is a far more convincing awareness of well being than any claims of Divine revelation ever offered.
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#327570 - 2010-01-27 05:21:26 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: cardw]
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Some good, worthwhile thoughts, cardw. Looks like you've done a lot of deep thinking about life.

I'd be interested in knowing who some of your favorite writers are or what books you've gotten the most out of.

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#327608 - 2010-01-27 11:42:27 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: John317]
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I read quite a lot, but it's only theory to me until I try it out. If it doesn't work in real life then it's not much use to me other than a curiosity.

The books that have really helped me move forward are

Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl
Healing the Shame that binds you by John Bradshaw
Training in the Art of Loving: The Church and the Human Potential Movement by Gearld and Elizabeth Jud
Why am I afraid to tell you who I am? by John Powell
Honest to Jesus by Henri Nouwen
A letter to a Christian Nation by Sam Harris
The Road Less Travelled by Scott Peck
Tao Te Ching
The Zen Teachings of Jesus by Kenneth Leong
A Grief Observed by C.S. Lewis
Doubt: A History: The Great Doubters and Their Legacy of Innovation from Socrates and Jesus to Thomas Jefferson and Emily Dickinson by Jennifer Michael Hecht
Healing Ancient Wounds: The Renegade's Wisdom by John Barnes
Living Buddha, Living Christ by Thich Nhat Hanh and Elaine Pagels
Pathways to Bliss: Mythology and Personal Transformation by Joseph Campbell
The Power of Myth with Joseph Campbell and Bill Moyers
Waking the Tiger by Peter Levine
The Big Book

and many others...These are the ones I can remember right now..
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#327742 - 2010-01-27 17:31:08 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: cardw]
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Nice list, Rich!

I've read a few but of the ones I've read, I most highly recommend Living Buddha, Living Christ by Thich Nhat Hanh and Elaine Pagels for its clarity, readability and the sense of pure spirituality that pervades his writing.

Alex (nice blog too, BTW!)
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#327759 - 2010-01-27 18:07:54 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: cardw]
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I'm a little puzzled here, carwd. How did reading all those books about God and Jesus help you to move forward to a far more convincing awareness of well being than any claims of Divine revelation ever offered?


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#327823 - 2010-01-27 19:16:14 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: cardw]
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CARDW

about your post on joy and suffering sound so much
like BUDDHISM.....it is like you are trying to work
you way toward to achieve this....

by the way I have a friend that is a BUDDHIST and
he uses this same reason


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#327969 - 2010-01-28 02:06:34 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: doug yowell]
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Well, I see Jesus as a skeptic and philosopher who was hijacked by orthodox Christianity and given Divinity. I even have my doubts that a person named Jesus Christ existed at all, but there is certainly an expression of wisdom and insight in some of the sayings and observations of Jesus.

One does not need Divinity to say these things or to come up with them. To understand this more clearly I think Joseph Campbell's work on the Power of Myth is helpful in understanding this approach.

Just because a writer states they believe in god doesn't negate what they may say in other regards. The particular Christian writers that I have found helpful tend to relate in a way that doesn't need god to make what they say true.


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#327970 - 2010-01-28 02:32:17 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: dgrimm60]
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There is work, but it's not based on external rewards. I'm not working towards salvation. I'm trying to avoid suffering and experience joy. That's pretty much instinctual. Not many people I know have to work at that desire.

When I state what I find to be true, it's not me trying to be good. It's me discovering the best way to find joy. That's an internal reward or in Christian terms your treasure in heaven. I think Jesus was referring to the Kingdom of God within as heaven available now. Many early Christians saw what became referred to as the 2nd coming as an internal mystical experience available right then. Pentecost and the Holy Spirit or Spirit of Christ may have been remnants of early gnostic beliefs about this mystical return.

Because Christianity establishes this idea of salvation, it becomes difficult to understand this concept outside of the Christian lens of good/bad/right/wrong. And for me the words of Jesus really spell this out clearly when he states that by the fruits you can know what is true. And, for me, I have found absolutely no evidence that Christianity produces what it claims.

When I look at the fruits of Christianity over its history, I find an appalling preponderance of violence and bigotry over and over and over again. And I believe it's because it adopted the neo platonic ideas of good and evil. The practice of violence against any who disagreed has been the greater portion of its history. It has been the secular movement that has checked its violence for now, but as we all know there are still those willing to kill in the name of god.

And I encounter Christians who are beautiful people, but their ignorance serves to spread suffering. A fool can create far more suffering than a tyrant. If Christians would spend more time learning how to reason well and less time trying to be "good" I think their voice would bring far different results. There is a vast wasteland of teaching, within Christianity, on how to empathize and love others. There is an excess of teaching on how to be "right."

And the tragedy of this approach is that it squelches empathy and love and is neither good or nor "right."


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#327974 - 2010-01-28 04:37:29 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: cardw]
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I see we like some of the same books. You've listed some excellent things. Viktor Frankl's book is one of my favorits. I've heard good things about the C.S, Lewis book you mention, but I haven't read it yet. I want to read it and Surprised By Joy. I liked his book On Pain and Screwtape Letters. He's always interesting and of course a great stylist, too. I enjoy reading almost anything about myths and eastern religions. Carl Jung wrote some excellent books about both.

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#327977 - 2010-01-28 05:02:54 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: cardw]
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You say you have doubts that a person named Jesus existed at all. That's a very interesting viewpoint. I don't think there are many students of history today who believe this. I'm not saying they necessarily believe that He was who the NT claims He is, but it seems to me that most believe that someone named Jesus of Nazareth actually did exist during the time the NT says. Even the ancient Jewish writings of that time-- the Talmud-- mention him although they say he was a sorcerer who performed miracles. That agrees with what the NT says some of the Jewish leaders were saying about Jesus. There's also the letter of Pliny the Younger which is very early and shows that the people were willing to die for what they believed. For me it means that they at least did not believe it was made up.

Have you heard of or read a book entitled, The Case For Christ, by Lee Strobel? It does a good job of investigating the evidence about the existence of Christ and about whether the NT writings about Him stand up under close scrutiny. For anyone who enjoys the subject, it's certainly good reading anyway.

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#327980 - 2010-01-28 05:52:08 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: John317]
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For a summary of negative arguments you can go to this link

Did Jesus Exist?

In actuality we can probably never know if Jesus existed. My guess from looking at the process of creating the Jesus myth is that Jesus or Joshua is a combination of various myths of the time and probably was originally a Jewish teacher with no claims of Divinity.

Within Christian circles the existence of Jesus is rarely questioned, so most believers are unaware of the lack of historical evidence other than the New Testament for Jesus the Christ. And all of the books of the NT were written long after Jesus died.
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#327983 - 2010-01-28 06:22:28 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: cardw]
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What is the earliest date of an ancient manuscript of one of the NT books, as far as you know?

Well, it certainly is a fascinating subject anyway.

If true, it's the most important thing in history and indeed in life; if untrue, it really doesn't matter.

I enjoy reading books on the subject from different viewpoints. I want to know the truth. I don't like the idea of accepting lies. You probably feel the same. So the best thing to do is read both sides of any issue, particulary this one. It keeps us honest, or more so anyway.

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#328005 - 2010-01-28 10:02:38 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: John317]
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I'm going to break one of the commandments slightly (shh . . . ) and borrow Rich's comment about Christian ignorance. How sad but how true. A lack of knowledge not only causes suffering for our own people but creates a schism within and a chasm between the secular and religious worlds.

Just the ability to speak honestly with agnostics and atheists without trying to be right. This would be much appreciated. I have quite a few friends in this category but they respect me and my beliefs because I don't use them as either a hammer or a crowbar. Some of the best spiritual conversations I've had are with these friends and sad to say not with my Christian ones.

Just take a look at this forum. There's more arguing from within than without. We are clearly not on the same page. I'm scared. And I'm getting more scared everyday. It's my fellow Christians who are scaring me. Lord, into thine hands I commend my spirit.

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#328034 - 2010-01-28 12:01:29 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: doug yowell]
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so, has ANYONE READ that this is the original thoughts forum, and there is to be no quoting?

This is not directed at anyone, but everyone, The Moderator has to spend most of his time on here deleting.
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#328042 - 2010-01-28 12:23:28 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: doug yowell]
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Wishing you well doug and card. Stan has indicated that the next person who quotes on this forum will be banned from further participation.

Nice seeing you here. Good bye ...
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#328051 - 2010-01-28 12:57:44 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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There also seems some difficulty with staying on topic! Maybe the the new 'topic' started could be moved or put under a different heading. If this topic is exhausted, than so be it. But this constant refocusing to other issues ....well, makes one wonder if their is much 'original' thinking...or maybe just some fear! backtopic Please!
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#328052 - 2010-01-28 12:59:50 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Stan]
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Yes, it would be really nice to be able to come here and just join in the conversation without cleaning the litter off the highway first...

It reminds me of certain drivers on the road that I refer to as the terminally oblivious... You know the ones that seem to drive slowly in the left lane with their blinker on, mile after mile, seemingly unaware that there are other vehicles on the road or traffic lights or any rules of the road...

OK

backtopic
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#328053 - 2010-01-28 13:00:17 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Woody]
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Sorry Stan, I keep forgetting to NOT click on the quick quote like I do on every other forum. Habit. Old dog learning new tricks.Not intentional.

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#328055 - 2010-01-28 13:03:43 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: CoAspen]
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Sorry. Was driving in the left lane just wonderin' bwink
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#328065 - 2010-01-28 13:32:26 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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T'was not directed at you, would like for everyone to get back to the question you started!!!
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#419248 - 2011-01-13 18:40:24 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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I know it's generally not a great idea to bump up ancient topics, but I just have to say...

I can't believe that it hasn't even been a year, and I completely disagree with everything I said in this thread.
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#419251 - 2011-01-13 18:51:41 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: SivartM]
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I second that SivartM. LOL Just kidding. rollingsmile
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#424102 - 2011-02-13 05:48:00 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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If there was no God nothing would exist.

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#424242 - 2011-02-13 18:44:09 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Sonny]
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I don't think an atheist or even an agnostic would agree with you?
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#424252 - 2011-02-13 19:08:44 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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Answering the op, I used to think that, given what I have learned over the years, that yes, I would seek to be "moral", even if there were no heaven, no God...

But if there were no God, would we know what morality is? If we all popped into existence somehow...
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#424291 - 2011-02-13 20:36:15 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: teresaq(sda)]
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Morality can be based on empathy and the reduction of suffering for all.

Jesus defines morality on that basis. Love your neighbor as yourself. Or do unto others as you would have them do unto you. It is an empathic basis of common experience.

Basing morality on a law seems to be the most immature basis of morality. Empathy is dynamic and far more insightful because it is based on actual reality and experience.
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#424353 - 2011-02-13 22:49:32 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: cardw]
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You say that Jesus told us to love our neighbor as yourself. Okay, but He also stated that this can only be kept through agape. Fallen humans can't produce agape, the ingredient that it takes to love our neighbors as we love ourselves.

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#424367 - 2011-02-13 23:36:38 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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Don't I know that!! Thank God He will implant it in us!
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Joh 14:27 Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.

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#428120 - 2011-03-08 10:10:55 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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I must confess that I'm a fairly newly-minted atheist myself. I'm certainly not opposed to the idea that some supernatural entity created the universe, but I haven't been able to find any evidence that said entity interacts with it in supernatural ways.

I feel that the cosmological argument you seem to be referring to with your "nothing would exist" statement is tenuous at best.

In regards to the question proposed by the OP: I strongly feel that my conversion to rationality has made me significantly more moral than I was as an SDA.
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#428302 - 2011-03-08 23:18:40 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Igakusei]
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In the words of Daffyd of Llanddewi Brefi, "But I'm the only "Atheist" in the Village!"

Welcome to the light! (Formerly known as the Dark Side)

That's where I'm at. Though in the general milieu of dialog we would be known as agnostic.


I have noticed the same thing. There is a freshness of life when I began to take personal responsibility for my choices. There are far better rational reasons to be ethical than the "ethic" of obey or else.
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#442120 - 2011-05-09 09:55:14 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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if there is no GOD then we wouldnt be created in HIS IMAGE!

we wouldnt have a sense of ourselves or a purpose
we wouldnt look into the stars and the world around us with a sense of wonder cause i believe us reaching out beyond ourselves to something greater than ourselves is put in us by GOD
so we could search for HIM in this mess

a GOD VOID!


sooooo we would be like animals surviving ..not using our frontal lobes in choosing right and wrong
just existing in self preservation with claiming land and gathering and hunting and making babies!

and to answer the question about murder or bad morals i would be sadly humping everyones leg scared


Edited by Parade Orange (2011-05-09 09:59:52)
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#442123 - 2011-05-09 10:14:25 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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this forum wasnt here before
why is it scarier here?
why is there a cop here making sure we dont quote anyone here?

and there as no such thing as an original thought

its all been said and done before
we just dont learn from it or forget

and since we share ideas and opinions here in this FORMAT we jump off each others thoughts and ideas we have!
are all based on things we heard or experienced and filterd thru our heads that are cluttered by other thoughts from books teachers parents and ministers and TV and such
SO this is really impractical in of it self
but i assure u copper that i will be very original in my posts!

o BTW im new to this so what exactly is considered a grievas offence here?

the CLUB chatroom that was here years ago was constantly be being UNDER SURVALENCE openly on by a harrasser who gave me a bad time repeatedly!

Once when i asked how old someone is that i met in chat-
i was interruppted and told its not polite as a lady her age

whaaaa?

A. didnt know it a female

B. asked for some sort of point of refrence not knowing anything but a neutral name

C. im trying to make conversation ( is the stranger 12 or 65 -would help my topic choices more effectively ) with a complete stranger

D. is that why the chat host was here? seriously to moniter every word? and to be miss manners?

E. and if i goof up to be verbally harrassed and put in place?

dont tell me the hall monitor is petty and have no life here also.
I didnt speak of it to anyone
thats one of the reasons i stopped posting and dissapeared


Edited by Parade Orange (2011-05-09 10:43:05)
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#442180 - 2011-05-09 12:47:07 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Parade Orange]
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PO, the grievous boo-boo that you could make here is to click on that "Quote" button while making a post. There is a reason this particular forum was set up in this way.

As for the chat room, it is now defunct. Members have been chatting it up on the Clubadventist page on Facebook, but otherwise it has been let go. I think it's a shame, too.
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#442233 - 2011-05-09 14:24:15 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Gail]
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Yes Gail Boo-Boos happen. But on this forum we have a boo-boo ban.
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#445893 - 2011-05-21 05:35:20 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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As one poster noted early in the thread, if there is no God then there is no good. By implication, if no good, then no bad. Of course the assumption of the question being that if no God then we are still here.

But, let's entertain the notion of good existing outside of God. Why are we good? Or, why are we taught to be good as children? Why are we taught to be good? Sing yourself the song "Santa Claus is coming to town". What are told to do so that Santa doesn't cross our name off his list? Be good. This is human nature, to induce improved behavior through reward, or threatening to withhold that reward.

What sub-culture, other than a religious one, focuses so heavily on doing what is right? I'd argue none, or at least very few. This is particularly true in the SDA church because we distinguish ourselves from other Christians by being different, following a different lifestyle, one that requires sacrifice now, in exchange for reward later.

Thus we have unintentionally created a culture where we choose to become good because of the reward will follow. Therefore, I would argue that if Christians found out today that there was no God, the initial reaction would be one of disappointment followed by immoral behavior by many simply because the incentive to be good has been removed, thus there are no consequences to one's actions.

But of course you still must live on Earth among your fellow men. This is where atheists or agnostics have a foot up on those who live in a devoutly Christian environment, because they are good for the sake of good, or bad for the sake of bad. They have an intrinsic desire to be or do good, despite the nature of man which pushes us to be bad and which they must resist or accept.

Of course carrots and sticks is not what God has in mind for us, but this is how the culture of Christianity has developed based on existing human traits which we have then embraced and driven forward with doctrine.

So, to answer the OP, I think it is different for different people. Their reaction to finding out there is no God would depend on their environment and their upbringing. Of course personality, genetics, would be a determinant as well.

As for me, I'd like to think I'd be good, but I also know that the culture of reward, through my religious upbringing, is very strong. I don't know what I'd do.

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#445895 - 2011-05-21 05:43:40 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Flyboy]
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I don't know....what you've described is simple behavioral psychology...avoidant behavior. Everyone does that...
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#445897 - 2011-05-21 06:06:15 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: rudywoofs]
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Yes, all people do it, and we learn it as children. But many churches embrace this facet of human behavior and use it to threaten eternal damnation vs. eternal bliss.

Ask someone why they don't speed down the highway and you are likely to get a number of different answers. Some will say they don't want to get caught, others will say they just want to follow the law, and others, the higher level of thinking, will say they follow the speed limit because they know it was designed for their own good and they don't want to risk killing someone, or killing themselves, regardless of the consequences.

This gets into Maslow, human motivation theory, and the human needs pyramid. So clearly it's very complex. If all of a person's needs are being met elsewhere then they are more likely to act in a moral, good, way.

Yet cultures certainly can embrace certain aspects of human behavior and use those to demand obedience, through guilt of breaking God's law, through threats of not going to Heaven, etc.

No need to agree with me, all just food for thought. But even if you are right, then how do we explain non-believers who are truly good people? What is their motive? Again, complex answer, but if we could isolate one independent factor, God vs. no God, and then watch the behavior, I think we'd find the non-believer to be generally more stable in his/her behavior than a believer. A believer would have to go through the process of working out the implications (upon realizing there is no God) for future behavior. Without the motive of Heaven, a reward they'd been expecting their entire lives, the sirens may well be too loud for them to resist.

I heard somewhere once, in a college class, that the average porn bills at hotel rooms are higher during Christian conferences than during any other conference. I don't know if that is true, but if so, it is quite disturbing. They won't be caught, so why not do it?

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#445908 - 2011-05-21 09:48:20 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Flyboy]
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I have also read somewhere that porn use is highest through the so-called Bible Belt region. More broadly on the sexual morality measure, Christians fair no better than the general population. Even though family values/sanctity of marriage is very high on the Christian values measuring stick, the divorce rate, adultery, pre-marital sex, Christians rank at about the same level, or worse, as the rest of the population. Studies have also demonstrated that across the board Christians are not much different morality-wise than non-Christians. And I suspect that looking generally at business/professional ethics or general compliance with the laws of the land, you will see little difference.

From the psychological standpoint of rewards vs punishments, immediacy is a very significant factor. If the carrot or stick is not applied in very close proximity to the behavior it is meant to control showing direct cause and effect, it is largely ineffective. Only those quite high on the maturity scale work well for deferred gratification. And deferred punishment is even less effective. And most indications are that Christians rank on the immature side of morality development, which could explain a lot.
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#446017 - 2011-05-21 19:21:48 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Tom Wetmore]
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In the first paragraph I would say that there is immediacy with the reward/punishment of breaking a moral value in a Christian home, just as there is in most other homes. I punish my boys if they don't obey. The difference is that in many homes the subsequent scolding from the parents often includes words about being good so they can go to Heaven.... couched in more appropriate, less judgmental words possibly, but the message is the same. I think this is probably less true today than a generation ago. But, morning and evening worships drive that home. The last few mornings our worships have been about obedience to God. I'd say that all people respond to rewards, if administered properly, but Christians have the added bonus of growing up in a sub-culture that revolves.... *revolves* around ultimate, and eternal, punishment or reward.

As for Christian's moral development being on the immature side, that's an interesting statement. I'd hate to admit this is a possibility, but I'd not be surprised if it were true. Any studies that substantiate that?

Or, is there another factor at play here? Is it that the type of person, the mind, that is drawn to religion in the fist place is one who would be naturally less able to have good moral judgment? What other lifestyle differences between regular churchgoers and non-believers are there? I'd be interested to know.

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#446417 - 2011-05-23 01:59:26 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Flyboy]
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Re: Christian's moral development being on the immature side...

You don't need any studies because a reward/punishment moral motivation is at the bottom of the scale.
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#446418 - 2011-05-23 02:38:28 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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Check out my good mate Mr Kohlberg for a great scale of moral development. (Google)
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#446429 - 2011-05-23 08:11:49 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Bravus]
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Also, a similar perspective - Fowler's Stages of Faith Development...

If we correlate the development of faith with moral development, it seems many are stuck at early immature stages.

I think that most would understand that an essential element of faith would be to foster moral development. I think it also reasonable to expect that as one increases moral maturity there would be positive behavioral evidence of that higher moral development. (If not, what is the point exactly?) In any other area of life we learn, practice, improve and continue to progress by doing so until we reach an optimal level. If not, we abandon the activity, seek a different approach that does work, or settle into mediocrity.

And as has already been noted, Christians seem little different from non-Christians when it comes to moral performance. That seems a pretty strong indication of immature moral development. Something isn't working very well. Maybe it is because a reward/punishment approach to teaching moral values isn't all that effective especially when neither the reward or punishment is directly connected to the behavior either in time or substance.


Edited by Tom Wetmore (2011-05-23 10:31:22)
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#446528 - 2011-05-23 15:35:45 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Tom Wetmore]
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I started questioning that whole idea, as mentioned in your last sentance, and have rejected it as a misunderstanding of God that we have missed in study the life of Christ.
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#446564 - 2011-05-23 18:13:02 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: CoAspen]
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I think it goes beyond a misunderstanding of Jesus. I think Jesus was hi-jacked.

Jesus says some things that are rather disturbing, like you must hate your mother and father to follow me. There are several of these that give us a clue that Jesus may have been teaching concepts of moral and conscious development that are more like Buddhism. The parallel saying of Buddha is if you see Buddha on the road you must kill him.

Another parallel is when Buddha says life is suffering. Jesus is a man of suffering. The point being is that in a reward/punishment world view suffering will always be seen as bad. This is not the case when one explores life in what is called the deeper truths.

Because we have this reward/punishment world view it is very difficult to understand what Buddha was saying and similarly what Jesus was saying. These sayings are only understood within the context of encountering the suffering of life.

The following video is a presentation at Google by Buddhist nun Rubina Courtin. She talks about Buddhism as not being a religion, but a hypothesis to be explored and verified. Happiness and morality are a side effect of this verification.

Of particular interest is her work with people in prison. To me this is closer to what Jesus was teaching than what Christianity presents to the world today.


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#446567 - 2011-05-23 18:28:43 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Tom Wetmore]
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Re: Tom's statement about Christian's moral performance as little different from non-Christians that seems to be a pretty strong indication of immature moral development.

I think this is true because most Christians have not had a "metanoic experience" as described in Romans 12:2 of being different from the world through being transformed by the renewing of their minds .

Therefore the majority Christian experience is vacuous and based on societal and cultural conditioning not true conversion.

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#446568 - 2011-05-23 18:38:40 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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This is another Buddhist parallel because Buddhism teaches the renewing of one's mind as essential to happiness.

Here is a short video that covers an interesting myth and some parallel teachings of Jesus and Buddha.


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#449575 - 2011-06-03 23:41:31 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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I think I would be moral by trial and error. You feel good when you do good and you feel bad when you treat someone badly or hurt another in all the various ways.

As we know God's strict laws are really our manual for how we really run right. They aren't arbitrary or meaningless.

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#449603 - 2011-06-04 02:11:47 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Ellen]
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If a person can't figure out that it's wrong to kill someone or steal then they're an idiot.

There are many sources for how to behave in one's culture besides the Bible.

Every culture has codes of behavior. Even animals have codes of behavior.

This idea that we need the Bible to tell us how to behave has no basis.
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#449729 - 2011-06-04 16:36:31 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: cardw]
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So then, if there is no God, and if man and beast have a common ancestry, how could man arrive at the idea that it is wrong to kill another human while it's all right for a lion to kill an antelope or even another lion?

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#449741 - 2011-06-04 16:56:36 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Gerry Cabalo]
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If we look at why a lion kills, it's for food and self preservation.

The Bible instructs people to kill others based on belief and ethnicity. It even instructs people to be killed in tortuous ways such as burning or stoning. And even worse the Bible has God instructing people killed for gathering wood on a particular day.

I would say the lion had a superior ethical code.
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#458530 - 2011-07-04 13:24:04 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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There is another problem with the question (I don't know if this was mentioned or not because there are a lot of posts), but if there is not God as stated at the beginning and we came into being say by accident (which seems to be the only other option) then how do we have anything good? I mean all good things come from God right? I guess I'm saying that we'd have to assume that good can come from nothing the same as bad can so maybe this is completely irrelevant.

Please tell me if this doesn't make sense.

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#458532 - 2011-07-04 13:34:01 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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By saying 'all good things come from God' you assume the thing you conclude.
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#458545 - 2011-07-04 14:28:44 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Bravus]
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I have said this before that Jesus doesn't even appeal to the Bible for ethics.

He appeals to empathy in one of his most famous statements to do unto others as we would have done to us. He clearly is not using laws to make his point.

Higher orders of ethics are internal, not external. Laws and sacred books are external. Empathy is internal.

That is the problem with the general tone of Christianity today. It is mainly about externals.
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#458865 - 2011-07-06 12:24:15 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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There are multiple approaches to answering your question.

One of those is that we as a culture mutually agree to uphold certain rights considered inalienable, including "life,liberty, and the pursuit of happiness", along with respect for other rights incidental to those three. This is a mutual agreement that helps avoid chaos. Of course, not all people mutually respect such a "social contract". Eventually, their disrespectful behavior tends to come back and haunt them by various dynamics of the culture.

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#458866 - 2011-07-06 12:30:44 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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I'll answer it: my behavior wouldn't change very much--I'd quit praying and quit reading my Bible, and I'd quit posting on religious topics.

My personality would be the same, and my relationships would be the same.

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#458925 - 2011-07-06 16:38:07 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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The only thing that would probably change for me is that I would lose hope. If there was no God, there would be nothing for me to look forward to..just live my life and die. And like Cricket said..there would be no point in praying or even being in a wonderful forum like this.
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#458974 - 2011-07-06 22:47:32 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: Senor E]
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How do you know that is the way you would feel? You are expressing feelings as if God were to disappear now. If you were to never know of such a being is the question. You can't lose something you do not know about. Now granted Alex did remove God after the possibility of His existence. If the existence of God is the only reason for moral behavior, then we are lost anyway.

There is no way of knowing what the universe would be like if there was no God. Why would we suppose it to be evil? According to the Bible, evil arose with Satan, not preexisting along with Good.


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#458977 - 2011-07-06 22:55:43 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: abelisle]
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But the original question did state the premise that if we found out today, without a doubt that there was no God, then how would we change. So, in a way, it is losing a belief in something(one) that was never really there, but the loss of belief is what "disappears now".

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#458979 - 2011-07-06 23:20:52 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: cricket]
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Yes, but I think the question is bigger than we realize! What would change in our lives? For me, that gets down to the issue of how/why we 'operate' in our daily lives.
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#459003 - 2011-07-07 04:45:00 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: CoAspen]
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I think it is better question when we ask, "What if we never were taught that there was a god?"

We can actually study what this would be like. There is a tribe in Brazil called the Piraha that has resisted conversion to Christianity for centuries. They are natural atheists. They don't see anything as created. They live completely in the present. Missionaries soon realize that the Piraha see the story of heaven, god, and the gospel as superstition.

MIT did a study on the happiness of different cultures. The Piraha were rated the happiest culture in the world based on the great majority of the time they spend laughing and smiling during the day.

Why would they need anything to provide hope when they already have it?

Suicide is so unthinkable to them that when they heard of it they laughed. They could not understand why anyone would want to kill themselves.

The gospel has absolutely no appeal to them because they are already happy.
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#459017 - 2011-07-07 09:01:07 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: CoAspen]
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I understand that--however, for me, personally, not much would change. I don't choose action X instead of Y because the Bible instructs it so, but rather because I know intrinsically (and sometimes through experience) that X has much better outcomes than action Y.

Granted, I have made some rather HUGE mistakes in life, but they were opportunities to learn from and to change my behavior in the future.

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#459037 - 2011-07-07 11:30:10 Re: Would you still be a moral person if ____________? [Re: cricket]
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